| The Perils Of Too Much Enthusiasm In The Job | | | | last employer you had an interview with to determine if |
| Search | | | | he/she has reached a decision. They have. It was not |
| You, as a job seeker, have just had a great interview. | | | | you. |
| You want to celebrate, maybe have a drink, dinner and | | | | Here comes more doubts and anxiety about yourself |
| relax. You are SURE you will be the candidate who | | | | as a good worker. Over-enthusiasm has come full |
| has won the job prize. | | | | circle into doubts. Enthusiasm in the job search is a |
| You have had several of these kinds of interviews. | | | | must. There can be times that over-enthusiasm needs |
| Three of them this week! You were enthused after | | | | to be modified. |
| each one! Doubts did surface after the second one did | | | | You, as a job seeker, would be better off if you had |
| not produce a job offer, nor did the first one and you | | | | continued to focus on your job seeking activites AS IF |
| have just been through a third one! | | | | you had not been the chosen candidate. It could be the |
| Its close to the weekend and, Mr or Mrs. Job Seeker, | | | | 10th interview or more, to get a job offer. In other |
| you, have decided not to worry about the results of | | | | words, being more realistic and not over enthusiastic. |
| this last one. You think, there will be good news on | | | | I think the process contains this: Practice, practice on |
| Monday. | | | | what you are doing to find a job. Make more contacts, |
| Monday and Tuesday wear on and there have been | | | | re-do your resume, send out thank you notes and sell |
| no phone calls or e-mails in your favor. Once again, | | | | yourself to employers that want your skills set. |
| there is a pang of doubt about your job seeking | | | | Keep your highs and lows under your control. Think of |
| abilities. There are no more interviews scheduled either | | | | too much enthusiasm as a trial balloon you can let go |
| for this coming week. | | | | of. Your next job balloon needs to be held tightly in |
| You, the slightly panicked job seeker, decide to call the | | | | your hands. |