Interviewing a Sitter For the Safety of Your Infant

The process of hiring a babysitter for an infant orWalk me through a typical day at your home,
baby is often scarey for any parent. If you have anWhat would you do if my child broke something in
infant or young child that doesn't yet talk or cannot tellyour home?
you what's happened while you're away, your upfrontDo you wear a seatbelt when you drive?
screening is serious baby safety business.What are your long term plans? Moving? Looking for a
First and foremost, read a lot of publications onjob?
interviewing a babysitter. Although these tips are great,Will you be transporting my child anywhere while
this is by no means a comprehensive guide.babysitting? If so, ask about the vehicle and car seat
Next, decide on what you need in a babysitter. It'sand seatbelts.
good to have a list of non-negotiables so you canWhat are your views on discipline? How would you
visualize your ideal candidate. Also, put together a listhandle a crying baby?
of requirements you need in addition to the interviews.What are your favorite activities would you do with a
You will want to consider a background check and achild the age of mine?
number of references among other things. Never useWhat do you like to do in your spare time? Any
personal friends of the candidate as references. Keephobbies?
in mind you are not just interviewing and investigatingWhat televisions shows do you enjoy watching?
the babysitter for baby safety specifics, but need toTell me some of the rules in your home?
weigh virtually everyone your baby or small child willWhat was the most infuriating situation you ever came
have contact with while in the care of the sitter. Thisacross while babysitting?
includes other children that she may be caring for inDo you have any pet peeves about parents you've
addition to yours and anyone else that might participateworked for in the past?
in the care of your child. For example the sitter mayHave you ever had to handle an emergency while
have teenagers that help after school or other familybabysitting? What happened and how did you handle
members that live in the home. The more people thatit?
will have access to your child, the more thorough andDo you have any first aid experience?
deep you need to dig into the total environment andWho lives in the home or visits regularly that might
the stability of everyone involved.care for my child while in your home?
Listed below are good interview questions to ask.Do you or does anyone in your home smoke?
Remember you do not want to give away yourWhat is your policy if my child is sick?
preferences to the person you are interviewing orWhat pets do you have? (don't assume because you
they will simply give you back the answer you want tocan't see them they don't have pets)
hear. If you say you are looking for a high energyWhat ages of children are you most comfortable
person, they likely will work to convince you how theywith?
are energetic but in reality might sit in front of the TVHow do you feel about phone calls or if I pick up my
all day. Pay attention to both verbal and non verbalchild without calling early if I get off work early for
feedback in order to find out the person's hot buttons,example?
level of confidence, sincerity and trustworthyness.At the end of the interview offer to answer any
Your goal is to peel back the layers and really find outquestions the candidate might have. Usually at this
about the person you are entrusting your preciouspoint it will have gone one way or the other. If you
child. The more comfortable you can make the personreally feel good about the candidate you should clear
during the interview, the more likely you will get goodyour other requirements like background check, driver's
information about the person and the care they willlicense, and references. Validate that the candidate
provide your child.also wants to move forward and if so, arrange to
Tell me about where you grew up and your familybring your child over to see how the potential sitter and
growing up?your child get along, as well as how your child does
What is your experience caring for children and whatwith any other children of the sitter or children the sitter
ages of children have you watched in the past?will be watching in addition to your child.