Good Interviewing is Mostly Listening

I watched some of the confirmation hearings of Judgelike the person, everything after that just reinforces the
Samuel Alito before the Senate in years past and it didinitial impression. Many times, job candidates pay a
not take long before I found myself yelling at thecompliment to the interviewer, the office, the
television for the Senators to "just ask the question!"organization or something that distracts the interviewer
Of course that didn't last too long because my wifeand gets the whole process off track. Don't take the
was quick to point out to me that she was the onlybait. Politely thank them and then return to the
one hearing my frustrations.prepared list of questions that are asked of every
If I had to grade the Senators' interviewing skills duringcandidate for a particular job. If the candidate attempts
this hearing process, I would had given most of themto 'hijack' the interview by coming to it well prepared
an 'F' because 13 out of 15 of them spoke longer thanwith their own list of questions, make them wait until
the job candidate. I think their goal was to impress theyou have gotten what you need from them and then
public with their knowledgeable elocution rather thanlet them ask what they wish.
finding out about Judge Alito's qualifications and beliefs.Remember, a lot can be learned about a potential
That is the most common mistake made bycandidate by just letting them talk. And, the interviewer
interviewers--speaking more than the job candidate.also needs to remember that there are many people
Often, the candidate leaves the interview knowing a lotwho are much better at 'selling themselves' than they
about the interviewer and the organization but theare at 'delivering the goods'. So the interviewer needs
reverse is not true. Often the interviewer ends upto develop good listening skills to pick up on subtle
rating the candidate highly when, in fact, they areclues provided by the candidate about how he or she
judging how well they listened to the interviewer rathertruly behaves.
than having learned anything about the candidate."Well done is better than well said.
As an interviewer, if your first impression is that you